If you are married, or have been married, you know that it can be hard to have a happy relationship all the time.  Sure, you will have your good days, and sometimes you will have bad ones.  That is life, right?

Well, that is what I thought until I read some Dr. Phil advice on the Internet that changed my thinking.  You see, he suggested that we needed to take responsibility for our unhappy relationships and do something about it.

I realized that I had always blamed the other person for the state of our relationship, but in reality, it is my fault.  After learning this hard fact of life (it took me awhile to accept it), and made an effort to have have a good relationship, my life, and marriage became better.  In fact, you could almost argue that the happiness is back.